Well, let me tell you a story about an old farmer, not just any farmer, mind ya, but one who lived out in the countryside for many, many years. This farmer, he was a hard-working man, been tillin’ the soil and tendin’ to his crops for longer than I could even remember. He had a good horse, a fine one, that helped him with all sorts of work around the farm. The horse was like a trusty friend, always there when he needed it.
One day, though, something happened that no one expected. This old farmer woke up one morning and found that his horse was gone. Vanished, just like that. Gone off, probably runnin’ wild somewhere. Now, you know how folks around here can be, always got somethin’ to say. They all came rushin’ over to the farmer’s place, cluckin’ and fussin’ like chickens. “Oh, such bad luck!” they said. “Your horse is gone, it’s a sign of bad times to come!”
But the farmer, he just scratched his head and said, “Maybe.” Ain’t that somethin’? The man didn’t get upset, didn’t cry or carry on, just said, “Maybe.” That was all. His neighbors didn’t know what to think. They expected him to be down, but the farmer just shrugged it off.
The next day, wouldn’t you know it, that horse came back! Not just the one horse, but a whole bunch of wild horses followed him right back to the farm. Now, the neighbors were really surprised. They came runnin’ again, all excited. “What good luck!” they said. “You’ve got all these fine horses now, you’re a rich man!”
But the farmer, he said it again, real calm-like, “Maybe.” You see, the farmer didn’t jump to conclusions. He didn’t start braggin’ or gettin’ too happy. He just took it all in stride. He was a wise one, he was.
Well, the story don’t end there. The next thing that happened, the farmer’s son was tryin’ to tame one of the wild horses. He was workin’ with it, tryin’ to get it to settle down and be useful. But one day, while ridin’ one of them horses, the son fell off and broke his leg. Oh, my, didn’t the neighbors come runnin’ then! They were all shakein’ their heads. “Such bad luck!” they said. “Your boy is hurt, now what’ll you do?”
And again, the farmer, he just said, “Maybe.” Didn’t seem to bother him much. He just kept on goin’, like he always did. Well, a few weeks went by, and the country got itself into a bit of a pickle. Some soldiers came around, draftin’ up young men to fight in a big war. But the farmer’s son, with his broken leg, he was spared. He didn’t have to go fight. And you know what the neighbors said then? “What good luck!” they said. “Your son’s saved from the war!”
But you know what the farmer said? “Maybe.” Yup, he said it again, just like he did every time something happened, good or bad. He didn’t get too excited when things were good, and he didn’t get too down when things seemed bad. He knew somethin’ that a lot of folks didn’t—life’s like that, always changin’, always unpredictable. What seems bad today might be good tomorrow, and what seems good today might turn out to be not so good after all.
This old farmer, he wasn’t just a farmer. He was teachin’ us all a lesson. See, he knew that life was a bit like the seasons—sometimes you get a cold spell, sometimes you get a warm day. But no matter what, you gotta keep goin’. There’s a rhythm to it all, and you can’t always control what happens. The only thing you can control is how you react to it. Whether it’s good or bad, how you deal with it makes all the difference.
And that’s the real lesson here. The story of the Taoist farmer shows us that we don’t always know what’s good or bad for us. We think we do, but we can’t see the big picture. Time, that’s the only thing that tells us whether something was a blessing or a curse. The farmer knew that. He lived by it.
So next time something happens, good or bad, maybe you should think about what the farmer would say. Don’t rush to judge it. It might be good for ya in the end, or it might not. But just like that farmer, maybe you should just say, “Maybe.” Ain’t nothing wrong with that.
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